Told to leave
I was told to leave
Toothpaste girl was invited in
I wasn’t even asked to leave
I had no chance to defend
or explain myself,
to redeem myself
They wanted me gone
So I had nothing left to give
And bubble gum girl dissolved
and faded like a mirage
They wanted the mirage
So I had better disappear
I didn’t blink like light hitting a tooth
and then crediting those that created
the effect
A whole person denied
to artificial rot prevention
I wasn’t shiny
I looked up antonyms for narcissism, and for the most part they all point to humility. I kind of feel like there is a more hands on approach to what seems to be an epidemic. One term I found compelling to be opposite of narcissism is substance.
Narcissism is a hollow state, as well as a hollow life. A narcissist’s life purpose and practice is superficiality. It’s all about presentation along with what they wish to present; all about being impressive, and nothing else. It amazes me how we fall into the endless abyss of someone empty. They’re very convincing that there is something great on the other side. But nothing ever materializes. We bite into that cute, hollow chocolate Easter bunny, but it tastes like shit. I’d rather be tangled up in someone who is dense with love, wisdom, action, and human complexity.
Admittedly, narcissists are great reflectors of ourselves. Masters at telling people what they want to hear, we need to consider our greatest weaknesses – our own hollow spots. The more matter a person possesses, the better they are protected. To gain the upper hand, present to a narcissist that you have substance, and are loved for it. Your proof of worth will call their bluff. Narcissists are loved from the outside-out. There is no in.
Image: Matthew Spiegelman – Portal
